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A realistic wedding day music timeline

Where music sits in the day, which timings usually slip, and what to agree with your venue before the day itself.

A realistic wedding day music timeline

Ceremony

Music starts as guests are seated, roughly twenty minutes before the ceremony time. Aisle, signing and exit music follow. If the ceremony is in a separate room from the reception, that is a second sound set-up and needs to be planned for.

Drinks reception

This is the part of the day most likely to overrun, usually because photographs take longer than planned. Background music matters here precisely because the couple is often absent — it stops the room going flat.

Dinner and speeches

Background music through the meal, then microphones for speeches. Agree in advance whether speeches come before or after the meal; both are common and it changes the whole afternoon's timing.

In large or long rooms, a second speaker position is often needed so guests at the far end hear speeches clearly.

The turnaround

Most venues need thirty to forty-five minutes to clear the room and set the dancefloor. This is when the evening rig gets set and sound-checked. If your venue does not have a separate room, plan for guests to be moved elsewhere.

Evening

First dance, then the party. Evening guests usually arrive around this point, so the first hour is about getting a mixed crowd comfortable rather than going straight to peak energy.

Check your venue's curfew early. It affects how the whole evening is paced.

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